Being rather technically challenged where IT is concerned (another shortcoming along with astronomy – planets, stars, galaxies etc., which are still a total enigma to me), I have a “behind the scenes” assistant who is presently still familiarising himself with WordPress. Therefore, I must admit that the blog is still “under construction”! I hope you will bear with me on this one!
I have lots of plans for keeping my blog one which should be interesting and, hopefully, appealing to many people who have varied interests and opinions. To prevent you from only hearing my voice, there will be a section for “Guest Contributors” and this will give an insight into the lives and passions of a variety of people from totally different backgrounds. I am not going to say too much about this section right now but you won’t have to wait too long for the first contribution.
Taking selfies is not something which appeals to me and I have never really enjoyed being photographed. I will, however, be replacing my unusual “About” photo once I find one which is more the real me – one which highlights just how much my looks have changed!
I realise that initially my posts tended to be too long, and the objective criticism I received in this regard has resulted in my splitting them into portions which should prove to be more easily digested. I do not want you to feel that you have to wade through my writing to get to the point.
Oh, by the way, I will also have a contact page on my blog in the not too distant future.
Well, that’s all for now and see you on the Magic Roundabout!
I do hope to be able to communicate my plans for my blog with you, the reader, using this section in the weeks and months to come. Sometimes I won’t be doing a full post, but will just jot down some thoughts and opinions right here which I trust will be meaningful and possibly thought provoking?
That dear, familiar face I’ll see no more,
Nor hear the voice I loved so well.
You’ve gone from me now to that place far away
Where time will have no meaning,
And pain will be a stranger you once met.
Thank you for your love – and my life.
How can a Mother ever be repaid?
The joy you brought us all
Will stay in our hearts forever.
When the pain has eased and we laugh once more,
We’ll remember the pleasure we gained
From our times spent together.
Rest in peace Mother.
Judy Binns Nemeth – This poem was written several years ago for a friend whose mother had died suddenly whilst spending a holiday with him and his family.
Everyone has warned you
That the dreaded day will come
When you realise with horror
That your brain cells have gone numb
The flush of youth is over
The neck cream is a must
Exercise is critical
For the bum and for the bust
Your memory will fail you
Your energy will flag
Your children still exploit you
While your body starts to sag
But let me not discourage
There is hope out there as well
With strength and resignation
The future is not hell
You join a club of heroes…
Who arrived ahead of you
They tell you that the problems
Are a load of old baloo
Age is just a milestone
And a privilege to enjoy
Many never make it
So, keep happy and ….oh boy
It’s fun to have the knowledge
And experience as well
To know how to enjoy life
And have anecdotes to tell
You’ve reached the stage of life
Where eccentric is o.k.
If you want, you can be crazy
You can do it all your way
You grew up with the Beatles
The Sixties were your own
You’ve had the best of all worlds
And you really cannot moan
You strive to be holistic
In your attitude to life
You travel, read and study
And avoid excessive strife
You need to have some fun time
You’ve worked for years and years
Go relax now it’s your birthday
And wipe away the tears
Life is really fun you know
Your age is in your mind
So raise your glass, and drink a toast
Have a party…..just unwind!
Judy Binns Nemeth
Where has time gone? Has he left forever,
Never more to return?
Or, will he come back to me
In a rush, like a flood,
One day when I no longer need him?
When my days are numbered,
And my friends all gone,
Will time be my companion,
Sitting beside me like an unwanted guest,
Overstaying his welcome?
Not then, but now, I need him.
Judy Binns Nemeth (Published in, Over the Rainbow – an Anthology of African Verse, 1996)
Now that I am starting to blog, the question comes up as to how to describe oneself?
My name is Judith Angela Nemeth (nee Binns), but as my first and last names when used together sound as though there is some sort of speech impediment, I tend to be called Judy or Jude and I live in South Africa!
I am definitely a people person, so all my interests do involve other people to some extent. I am passionate about psychological matters (have an Honours degree in Clinical Psychology) especially areas such as twin studies and the effect of early childhood experiences on later life. Making people laugh and feel better about their situation is something I thrive on. I am also fully qualified in reflexology and aromatherapy!
I have been in sales for many years, have lectured, taught an African language to school children, been a Lifeline counsellor (at a time when Aids had just reared its ugly head) and hired and trained staff in the hospitality industry during the 5 years I was a co-owner of a pub and restaurant where I was also a hands-on manager. My hope is to be able to share past experiences, current ideas as well as to have something truly worthwhile to contribute through my blog which is definitely not going to be all about me!
I was born in England and was fortunate enough to have travelled quite extensively in Europe during my younger years and have many memories and interesting facts related to this which I would love to share at some stage.
My aim is to have a blog which is sometimes interesting, sometimes informative, sometimes controversial and anything in between. Hopefully it will be fun to read – there is so much negativity in the world around us that some tongue in cheek humour often helps to lighten the load of day to day living. To appeal to all age groups and different cultural backgrounds would mean that my blogging is successful!
Choosing my blog name “Hey Jude” was easy as I am called Jude by many special people in my life, and the Beatles hit of the same name brings with it a lot of personal memories.